Tuesday, December 5, 2006

What are Beneficial Decisions?

Decisions are of 2 types: beneficial and normal ones.
They have two consequences: benefit and loss.
They are implemented in 2 ways: forced and conscious.
They provide 2 results: satisfaction and frustration.
Benefits are of 2 types: monetary and psychological.
Loss are of 2 types: monetary and psychological.
Though, all these also involve physical aspect, but that is undermined in presence of psychological aspect.

Monetary benefits are always short-lived, though being a very big driving factor and dominating most of the decisions.
Mostly, decisions are always in favour of benefits.
A forced decision leads to frustration while a conscious one leads to pure satisfaction.

Mostly, there are circumstances associated with forced decisions which lead to the conversion of forced decisions into conscious decisions. But the heart knows the difference and it won't leave you alone on this, though your mind will accept it.
Mostly, the circumstances which are considered in undergoing forced decisions are very abstract and hypothetical. There real-time occurence probability is very low, though it is anticipated to be very high. This mostly leads to a forced decision being taken which is later regretted or takes a sobbing corner in the heart's dark bracket.

Examples of such decisions are 2 guys:
One doesn't take up a high paying job in another city due to reasons related to heart, while another takes up a trip to USA under pressure of circumstances which are over-estimated. One is currently, quiet happy with the decision taken, while the other is on the verge of changing platforms on a day-to-day basis.
One is enjoying and satisfied with the days as they are passing, while the other is under constant frustration about what to do and what not and thinking of alternatives to fulfill a decision he desires.
Time surely will tell, what would be achieved by such endeavours.
One should be a little selfish in life to be happy:D, otherwise, it just becomes a prolonged period of endurance without happiness and lots of regrets in life.

If you have a single regret in life which you could have avoided, it should be avoided as it makes life a lot more merrier. :D This is a proven thing. Ask the gurus of such fundaes.

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